The day after my ex husband told me he was leaving I painted my toenails.  A lovely reddish brown color…

It’s a Wednesday night and I’m sitting quietly at my dining room table, listening to the neighbor kids play football…

I swam in the fury and the blame and how I felt again like my body and my experiences and…

#whyididntreport – because I was 14 and I thought it was my fault for not being clearer with my no.…

If you’ve been following along you know that life (specifically my life) has been filled with tumult and change for…

Today I am forty-three. Most of my life I have believed that other people knew better than me, were smarter…

Good lord moving is an exciting, exhilarating and monumental pain in the ASS! My family and I lived in our…

I lived in fear for a decade.  Afraid so often and so consistently that I moved between two states, acute…

My last post was pretty intense and inspired MOUNTAINS of emails from friends and strangers all over the world. I…

What an amazing year … I start out the year struggling to figure out how to breathe after my husband…